Ok so I’m in a relationship with an older guy who has a 3 year old son and we have a six month old daughter together but when it comes to disciplining his son he won’t do it and he’s becoming a problem with everything going out in the house and in school he’s been told that his daycare can no longer help with him because it takes two teachers to handle him and that leaves no time for the other students but when I say that he needs to try and be more strict and add structure to his life he blows it off yesterday he was throwing toys while his sister was doing tummy time and I told him to stop and he started throwing a fit and ran to his dad (which is what he always does cause he knows that his dad will give in ) so his dad hopes it’s ok buddy and basically said it’s ok for that behavior so I called him out on it saying he’s creating bad behavior and that he needs to stop before his to old and he can’t be controlled and this man had the nerve to tell me he knows what he’s doing as that he doesn’t need my help so I told him I won’t help anymore and to not ask me to step in but the moment his son acts up he’s calling me like babe can you help me with him I’m just so tired of it and I’m feeling very unappreciated right now part of me wants to leave but I also want my family to be together but we need to raise them together and on the same page or this isn’t going to work I’m feel like I’m being pulled in two different directions and do t know what to do someone please help