"Nope, just slouching..."


That has been my response to 3 different women asking if I am pregnant. In the two years I've been married, I've gained about 40 lbs and went from being in a healthy BMI to Obese I. I'm trying to work being healthier and finding things to be proud of and happy about as it relates to my appearance and physical strength. I struggle knowing how to dress myself at this weight and to their credit, I wear a lot of loose clothes and I'm also a major sloucher.

But dude, who asks a woman if they're pregnant?! That's just setting yourself up for an awkward conversation. You better be damn sure before those words leave your mouth.

Has this happened to anyone else?!