Is it bad that I already have a name & I’m basically letting my husband get a “certificate for participation” by suggesting names I already know I’m not going to use? This is my 5th pregnancy, rainbow baby & our first together (I have a son who’s 13) & was told by our doctor we couldn’t get pregnant about 5 years ago. Now she’s almost here and I have her name set in stone... I’m afraid to share it with him, I’ve mentioned it in passing but didn’t tell him “this is it” and even though It’s his baby too I already made up my mind, lol. I also don’t plan on sharing it with anyone till she’s born cause I don’t want to hear anyone’s options or opinions. It’s also kind of a rare name, not something you really hear I dont want to hear anyone’s negative comments! A part of me feels selfish & the other half of me is like “when you push a baby outta your vagina you can name it whatever you want!”