Sex talk?

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I'm 15 and my mom and I have had the sex talk before but I don't know how to ask her to get a sex toy..... She doesn't even know I masterbate but I'm pretty sure she's figured out by now with those long showers and locked doors. And I sucks because my family is very religious and My parents would be very disappointed if they found out I was having sex. They want me to get married first!( which I'm not having sex) Should I ask or should I just keep doing my thing? Would you let your daughter get a vibrator or a dildo?

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No, I wouldn't let my child have a dildo or vibrator. Buy one when you're financially independent and/or an adult. There is plenty of fun to be had with yourself before resorting to a toy.

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Sounds like the situation I was in when I was younger. I never asked because I was afraid of her reaction. So I continued to do my own thing and we never had a problem. No point rippling the water if you don't know the outcome.

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I'd rather my daughter (if I had one) have a toy and be able to please herself, rather than going out and actually having sex. But at the same time it also depends on age and maturity. If I feel like you just want one to say you have one then, no. But if you're coming to me saying you've been doing you're thing for a while and it's not enough anymore and instead of trying to take the next step which is having sex, and you're wanting to continue you're thing but with a toy. I'd greatly consider it. My mom was one of those people that you didn't even talk about a boy or she'd just assume I've had sex. I hated it. I ended up becoming sexually active at an early age. But found out later I liked toys better, thanks to toys I've had only 4 sexual partners and all of them I was with for a long period of time.

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I was always open with my mother at that age. But I was also having sex. Anyways I had a vibrator at that age as well, I don't think you should ask your mother to BUY you a toy, bc that's kind of odd, and I wouldn't want to go to a sex store with my mother while I'm poking around at what I could possibly want. My point is, have your own money ready, and your own ride whether your walking or taking a bus. A good friend is always great to go with. Mom doesn't need to feel awkward her self. And just hide it under your mattress or something.

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No I wouldn't let my child have a dildo etc.. Just keep doing what your doing but if you think she will be understanding about you getting one go ahead but if you were my daughter no I wouldn't allow it.

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Maybe go with a good friend to get one?

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I would let my child have a sex toy. It can do no harm and its better than letting my 15 year old daughter go around having sex. There is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself.

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