How often does your kid 3-5 misbehave

Misbehave as in

-throw a fit & cry

-whine & not follow directions when they don’t get something they want

-whine & not follow directions when it’s time to go home from somewhen they are having fun

-not listen after multiple times when told to stop doing something ( running around, throwing a ball in the house or jumping on furniture )

Not judging at all. My S/O thinks my nephew misbehaves more often than most kids & I’ve been trying to explain that all kids get upset when told to do something they don’t want to do. He’s also never spent a lot of time around younger kids