Dysfunctional comes in many forms...

And turning a 2 hour office party into an 8 hour binge is a good example.

A little back story. My boyfriend and I have a 10 week old newborn. Last year when I was pregnant he got in trouble with a DUI which caused a lot of grief and expense. He has a law abiding curfew of 8pm because of it. Since then he's gone out drinking with coworkers I think about 4 times. He always says he'll "just have a couple beers" and then end up wasted out till the early morning. He knows it causes me severe anxiety. He doesn't answer the phone "because it was on vibrate". And He always says "I'm never drinking like that again". Be it he doesn't drive home these few times which is good. He gets a ride which is apparently why he gets home so late. He knows when the curfew is though so he clearly just wants to keep drinking.

My issue is he's now a father. I went yesterday to the party with the baby because everyone wanted to meet the little guy. I left a bit before it was supposed to end at 6pm. He said he was just gonna hangout a bit longer then come home. He got home at 2am!

I'm really starting to question our relationship. I'm honestly already like a single mother in the regard that he doesn't help with the baby. If I get him to watch him for a few minutes so I can shower or cook dinner, as soon as he starts crying or getting fussy he tells me to take him. Like he can't be bothered because his video game is more important. 😏😡

I'm really considering moving in with my mom and calling it quits. At least she would be more helpful...