Everyone always says college is a confusing time where you find yourself. I went into it thinking i had it all figured out, but it feels like everything is falling apart. I hate my major, I have no clue what I’m doing. I feel stupid. No matter how hard I try in classes, it’s never good enough. I get C’s and I don’t know what to do. I can’t go into tutoring because I have to work to be able to pay for school and bills. I feel ugly. I never feel like I’m good enough. I always feel the urge to break up with my boyfriend because I don’t feel sufficient. Nothing ever goes the way it’s supposed to and i have no clue who i am anymore. I don’t know what i like to do. I don’t know what i want to do with my life. I’m trying to transfer but my grades aren’t good enough. I have no clue what to do. How do I find out what I want to do? How do I change my major without wasting all the time and money I’ve put into it? Is any of this even worth it, cause it doesn’t feel like it.

How do people do it? I feel so lost. But then again, maybe this is what everyone always talked about and you magically work it all out. Any advice is appreciated, or even someone saying I’m not the only person in this situation would make me feel better.