How are you staying positive?

Question

Y'all its only month #4 and I seriously need help staying positive. I'm super frustrated and I feel like giving up. I also feel pretty bitter and like resentful towards my husband and family because when we started ttc in January I was all excited but every one just kept putting mr down. They just kept saying calm down, stoo focusing on it, its getting annoying

Answer

Plan something special with your husband. Like a stress free short vacation. Just have fun. Sometimes that's you need. Positive vibes!

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I know it’s not what you want to hear, but stressing about it is not healthy. I went through the same thing you did. I would test every month early, was doing OPKs, checking CM, symptom spotting, etc every month driving myself nuts and crying every time I got my period...but then I said enough. It’s too much and it takes its toll on you. Just remember that it WILL happen. But stressing over it is not going to make it happen any faster and it’s just going to make you and your husband miserable....which actually contributes to not being able to conceive! It took us a year to conceive the first time, unfortunately ended in miscarriage...but it happened when I finally stopped testing early, symptom spotting, etc etc. 
I just found out I’m pregnant again and it was a couple months after I decided that trying wasn’t my main priority and I was just focusing on myself. I didn’t even use OPKs the cycle it happened this time!
So, my advice honestly is to just know when you ovulate, try to have sex around that time...but just remember everything else isn’t going to help you get pregnant faster. It’s just rolling the dice every month.

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