Is it weird to refer to my bf as my partner?

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My partner is male and I am female. We have been together for 6 years, live together and have a child together. We are not married or engaged bc he has commitment issues I think. (But he is faithful 100%.) Someone recently told me its weird for me to refer to him as my partner bc that is what same sex couples do and they assumed I was with another girl bc I said "my partner". I feel like 'boyfriend/gf' doesnt describe our relationship and I dont wanna explain rvery time why we arent married yet so partner felt like the best fitting option. But is it really weird?

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