Ok so when my second baby that I’m pregnant with is born and it comes time to bring our daughter to meet her new sibling I want it to be just me, my hubby, my daughter and the baby it’s a big moment and I don’t want my mil in there. She’s very over bearing and controlling and always has to be the center of attention. My brother in law and his wife just had their first kid together and when it came time to bring their boys to meet their new sister my mil brought them up to meet her. Every single picture is of my mil holding the baby and introducing the baby and being like what do you think there were none of my brother in law or his wife showing the boys their sister. It gets under my skin thinking of me going through all the pregnancy ups and downs just for her to present Brook her new sibling. Idk maybe it’s just my hormones but also that’s how I met my siblings just me my parents and my siblings. It’s a moment where your family grows by one it’s a beautiful moment and I swear to god if that woman is in there taking over I’m gonna loose it. Idc really if she’s there I get she may want to see my daughters reaction but I want it to be us showing showing brook her sibling not my mil. Am I horrible and I feel the same about my own parents too so it’s not just me having issues with my mil

Also we’ve gone through a lot to get this we lost 4 angels before this ones and our daughter had started thinking we just won’t give her a sibling cause we think she won’t be a good big sister even though we assure her that’s not why we loose the baby’s si that moment will be huge for us