Think this guy might have a girlfriend or wife...

I met this guy who randomly followed me on IG. I’m currently on a break from a 5 year relationship and am bored... so I decided I’d follow this guy back, based on the fact he’s STUPID HOT. so we’ve been talking, and it’s progressed into getting really sexual the past few days to the point where we’re sending things to each other.

Now a few things feel weird:

He mostly wants to talk through Instagram.

He says he lives alone. But his job at a hospital doesn’t seem like he could afford living in LA alone.

His page was only made in December and he really only posts pictures of himself (I know he’s not a catfish because we’ve video chatted) he has over 2k followers all seemingly random girls, no close friends commenting.

He often goes to “sleep” at like 8pm. Seems early.

Am I reading too far into it?

Now I’m sure he talks to others too and that’s fine. My ultimate goal is to get back with my ex and that’s his goal as well and we’re working on things. (He’s fully aware I’m talking to someone for fun by the way. I value honesty)

But the other night we were sending some dirty things back and forth and then randomly he stopped and said his sister and nephew came over. Seemed kinda late for a visit from his sis and her young kid who has school tomorrow. My gut is telling me something is up. Does he have a girlfriend? Or a wife? Could this be a separate Instagram account from his real one he uses to pick up girls? I’ve taken a step back from him since the weird “family visit” at 9pm on a Tuesday night and he’s picking up on my distance and saying things like he wants to fly me out to LA, he wants to be with me, like trying to create an emotional connection so I don’t stop talking to him. But something seems fishy and Im worried i could talking like this with someone else’s man.