My mil commented on this lady's fb, who has a daughter in the military showing support to her. And this random lady who neither my husband or I ever met but who knew my husband served in the military too send us a box full of baby things. She gave us a baby carrier, swaddled blankets, crib sheets, sound machine, baby shampoo and bubbles. All good quality new things, she works for a baby company helping baby's sleep etc. Its crazy what kind words from someone can do.