Thoughts on soy formula **update **

So my lo got switched from gerber gentle to gerber soy

But I’m now just researching and found some articles saying soy is bad especially for boys which I have something about estrogen I’m seriously so upset I have no idea what to do?? Yes the dr did the change and my research is off line but still I’m scared and worried

Can someone help please some info

I should add his issues are severe constipation,spits up, bloated, gassy, usually cranky