I make more money then my boyfriend

I make more money then him I feel like it’s putting a strain on our relationship. He hasn’t paid for a date in about 5 months, everything we do I’m paying for it. I’m not very sexual with him anymore because I don’t know the vibe just isn’t there, I’m always working. I pay for his video games and for his weed it’s just so annoying because all he can contribute to is rent and barely bills. It’s like I want to have fun, I work from home so all I be wanting is to get out the house but I have to pay for the lyft, the food (he always ordering the most expensive shit) and I get tired of that because at a point in life where I’m ready to make major moves and honestly I’m not gonna pay his way through them. I don’t care for the gender role shit it’s just he can’t even match my steez and when I do mention going out on a date he never has the money. He doesn’t buy groceries for the house I do and it took him forever to fill out the form for food stamps. He’s to comfortable with me doing everything so I said imma do nothing and start seeing about a separate apartment when this lease is up. I take care of finances, handling business calls and cleaning and cooking. I feel like I have no help and whenever I bring shit up he gets defensive so I just don’t say anything anymore. I barely wanna have sex with him because I’m always tired and not in the mood. He’s very handsome but I just feel we’re drifting. Our ambition just isn’t the same. He doesn’t wanna get a second job because he wants to travel but he isn’t even making enough to save for a trip? He a Virgo so if you know anything about Virgos you know they don’t like change or advice. I’m a Capricorn so I’m driven af and I’m always climbing to the high high of my goals. I’m 22 and I’m ready for a change and I think maybe if we separate for a while that’ll get him on his shit?