Frustrated need advice from parents

I haven't had good sex in awhile. I'm 3 months pp and I can't get two seconds with my man. I wanted to have sex tonight after I put my baby to bed but it took her 2 hours to fall asleep and once she did, she woke right back up 😭 I have to hold her for naps and she has to sleep in bed with us.. or else nobody sleeps. Does this get better?? Will she be more independent or am I just in a sexless relationship until she gets older? Any time we get it's rushed and not fun. He haven't even gave me an orgasm in half a year. When I was pregnant it's like he didn't want to touch me and now it's even harder because I'm constantly holding our child. I love her so much but damn id like to feel like me again. So will she grow out of this or what? I hate to feel like I'm being selfish but I believe sex is an important part of a relationship and i don't want us to fizzle out. It's not just sex either. I can't piss, I can't eat anything, I'm trying to lose weight and she cries when I try to work out. I can't put on makeup... I just want to feel like myself again. Last time I took a shit, I had to hold her.