Ladies am I wrong?

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My SO gets up at 5/5:30am
He expects me to make his coffee.
When really he can do it, it doesn’t take long since he likes the instant coffee.
I use to do it but me being pregnant 
I’m tired and I don’t get to sleep enough at night from all the tossing and turning and bathroom breaks.. the joy) 🙄 lol. But seriously shouldn’t he be able to do that and gather his lunch together?? I’ll make him something the night before so he knows what to grab in the morning. I know I’m his wife but he isn’t a baby....

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Girl you're busy making some lungs or a nervous system or something he can make some coffee.

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Fuckkk no. He’s a grown up

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LOL no he can make his own. It’s nice that you put something in the fridge for him. I’m off work now and sleep in because I don’t sleep well at night. Not only does my husband deal with his own breakfast, coffee, and lunch but he also brings me a morning drink in bed so that I don’t have to get up!

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Ha! He's a grown ass man and you are not his mother. You are making him a child and therefore can sleep as much as you need and he can take care of himself. If you feel up to it some mornings then sure go for it but in no way should it be a requirement on you.

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Fuck that. He is a grown ass man he can make his own damn coffee. Pregnant or not you’re not his servant. Obviously if you happen to be making coffee anyway sure but not waking up just for him. What will he/you do when the baby is born?

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Just be straight with him and tell him you're exhausted from being up all night. He'll get the point when you don't get up lol. 
You can even be funny and the night before,  set out the coffee, spoon and mug, sugar or whatever on the counter with a sticky note that has a smiley face. He'll get the hint haha, without you having to go off on him for not having any common sense

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I wake up every morning to make my husbands breakfast coffee and lunch. I give myself 15 minutes to do everything. I see this as an act of love and the least I can do for my husband who works so hard. But this is my choice. I’d do it if it’s out of love. If not then it’s hard to do it at all.

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Please, not hate, and if your going to comment, at least read all the way through. 
My husband and I used to think like that. He would want me to sleep in b/c I’m pregnant and he would make his own breakfast in the mornings. Really it wasn’t breakfast, just coffee and a couple pastries. But every once in a while he would want me to get up and make his breakfast. And I felt so tired and upset. I couldn’t understand how he could be so oblivious to the fact that I was exhausted. 
A little back story, I work as a PA and I clean an office building at night, but he has always gone with me to help me so I can finish quicker, since I took the cleaning job, and then in the mornings he goes to his job in construction and I go off to my part time PA job. Now that I’m pregnant, he does all the work in the building and then goes to work in the mornings. But I still thought that making breakfast in the mornings was something he should worry about because he wasn’t pregnant. My tiredness was justified. His wasn’t. 
But I realize now, that I couldn’t of been more wrong.  
Last week he was diagnosed with diabetes. And the only reason he was diagnosed was because we ended up in the ER with him almost dying. And now I feel everything was put into perspective. Was that extra hour or two of sleep worth it? When in reality he never really did want me to make his coffee, he just wanted to spend a little bit of time with me in the mornings before going to work. 
I don’t know what your situation is with your husband or life. But in my life I’m pregnant and tired, but he’s also hard working and tired. And maybe, just maybe, if I wouldn’t of spent so much time thinking how unfair he was being to me those times I would get up to make him his breakfast he wouldn’t be so sick. In the end, like I said, it was never about the breakfast, it was about him wanting a few minutes with me in the morning. Men sometimes have a funny way of showing that they want your affection. Again, it’s not the same situation, and my heart is seriously hurting because my soulmate, best friend, love of my life is sick. But there’s a chance that someday, you’ll look back and you’ll realize, you don’t truly remember how tired you were those mornings that you got up to mix his instant coffee, but you will remember seeing his face smile at you and tell you how much he appreciates and loves you. And believe me, that tiredness you felt, will be worth it.

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Does he expect you to change his diaper too? Poor baby needs to grow the f up before the actual baby comes. I can see his sort of “man” being the type to legit be jealous of the baby

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