PLEASE HELP!

I’ve been inlove with this guy for over a year now and we were on and off for about 6 months. Our relationship has always been very complicated and full of ups and downs, he says he doesn’t have feelings and apologied for hurting me in the past, we are now “friends” although only have a friendly conversation every now and then. He very well knows I’m still so inlove with him and I have told him how I feel and that no matter what I do I can’t get over him. Please help me!!! I’m so inlove with him and my heart literally aches because I can’t have him cause I know it will never work!! EVERYONE (his friends included) tell me he still has feelings and they say the same to him about me which I feel also kind of puts a strain on our friendship cause his friends make up stupid things about me. But I cannot get over him. We had no contact whatsoever for about 8 months and I’m still head over heals for him and was the whole time!!! I’ve tried distracting myself and talking to other guys but I can’t find the connection I have with him and he is always in the back of my mind 😢

44 views • 0 upvotes • 1 comment

COMMENT (1)

Je

Posted at
What you need to do is yes distract yourself but not by talking to other guys but by going out different places going for a run maybe even finding a different job that will able you to become at a higher level wich you will be happy with because if you are not happy with urself or happy about something for example maybe how a part of your body looks that will affect how you see others and therefore things like this will happen it’s hard yes but now you have to pick yourself up and look at him as just a friend it’s good u don’t talk as much and go out with ur friends more you will soon get over him that’s how it works and eat ice cream lol.