My SO recently said he is depressed and at an all time low. He said he started feeling this way a few weeks after the baby was born.

He's stated that he's so numb he doesn't feel a thing and that includes him not being sure he is in love with me anymore.

Obviously I'm devastated, confused, hurt, angry, the list goes on. We have a freaking baby together and now this..

He isn't ready for counseling, he wants nothing to do with me but acts as though everything is normal.

So I'm apparently supposed to wait months or however long it takes for him to figure his shit out in order to know where I stand in his life.

Has anyone had a similar experience? Please help I'm at a loss here..