Constant Struggle

Alexis
So it's always a constant struggle between my boyfriends mother and I. We've been together for 7 months, I'm 18 and he's 19, we both still live with our parents but my parents understand that we love each other and that we're "adults" but his mom still tells him when to be home, what he can and can't do and says I'm not invited to things because I'm not "family", it just feels like she doesn't want him to spend time with me. I just need to know what I should do. My mom says that if he really loved me he'd stand up for me and if he doesn't I should find someone new, please help!