So I'm dating a guy and he's in the process of getting divored court this Monday and then finilized in June. He has a son i have 2 daughters. But before all the many things have come up....He has a best friend a female one that lives in NY. They didnt date cuz she didnt want to hes gobe up twice to see her and she come down to see him. Recently found out same girl that caused issues in his marriage 😒😒😒.... And hes lied about talking to her..... He went to the bar and took some random ass home slept with her and we split for 3 months. We are back together and I just found out hes willing to pay her 1000 a month all fees and spousal support everything to get his son. He he would be financially broke if court agrees until his son is 18. And he renewed his insurance right but he added her on it as well..... Just found out today... He said so he can hqve her information mind you she's and EMT. Soooooo I wanna know is it time to leave give an ultimateum or what. I'm so emotionally fucked idk what to think of to feel please help . ecouragement. Please