I just want to make love to my husband...

I just want to make love to my husband. Weve been trying to concieve for some time now and havent had any luck... well it's gotten to the point where he gets off and were done... we dont get eachother off no foreplay no dirty talking just in out and done... I was really upset and made the comment that if it's not going to be fun to concieve then I wasnt sure I wanted to continue to try. It's so much pressure already because it's my fault we're struggling and then you take the pleasure out of it and I dont know.. maybe I'm being stressed and irrational. Like yes I've masturbated but it's not the same as making love to your husband(or wife) and enjoying that pleasure together.. 😔 sorry for my rant..