Baby Shower Bullshit

In the beginning, no one stepped up to plan my baby shower and so I assumed the responsibility. I got the venue, did invitations, made the menu plans, got all the decorations, and then my mom decided last minute she decided she wants to.

The guest list is approx 60 people and she got a caterer for 110 people, for the wrong day and this was a month and a half ago that I had told her to cancel it.

Now, I have multiple people who have been told to make stuff, a caterer for double the amount of people and my mother who'll undoubtedly hang her getting a caterer over my head. Most of the people who were supposed to make something are my SO's family and will think I'm rude if I change my plans last minute.

I didn't even want a baby shower and now everything is going wrong a week before. And now it's way too late to cancel everything, which I would love nothing more than to do.

How much stress is one stupid party supposed to give someone?