15 wks 6 days!

So my husband and I have a 19 month old daughter and are supposed to find out what we’re having in about 5 weeks. We originally planned on keeping it a secret from family until birth but we both know I’m probably going to slip up. 🤣 (I’ll be too excited not to tell someone ) so we got to talking this morning and the idea of also being surprised ourselves is being thrown about. I kind of like the idea of waiting until birth, but I’m also soo excited to know if I’m having a boy or girl! Anyone find out with their first and not their second? How do you do it!!!!