Hemorrhoids?!?!? Help

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I don’t see me OB until May 7th, and getting an appointment before then is impossible that’s the soonest I can see her. I need experienced mamas recommendations on the best Hemorrhoid cream/treatment I can get over the counter or make at home. I’ve never had hemorrhoids before & I sit a lot at my job 😭 I’ve tried cold compress but that temporarily dulls the pain doesn’t really subside. Please help 😩