Everything is so wrong!

Has anyone ever been told that baby has bowed femurs? They saying this is likely a form of skeletal dysplasia which she’ll either not survive or be very severely disabled with no quality of life... I’m 24+4 and can’t stop crying it breaks my heart I just don’t know what to do they keep offering terminations and I’m already admitted in hospital due to waters breaking at 23+2 and she has severe IUGR so even if born now they wouldn’t intervene as she’s under 500g I feel like they are just trying to tell me to end it all because either way it’s going to not end well, prolonging her suffering, my suffering and my other children HELP