So I’ve decided that when I find out if baby #3 is a boy or girl I’m not telling anyone because I don’t want to hear the negative comments if it’s a girl. We have 2 girls 1 & 2 yrs old. 2 &3 will be 18 months apart. I struggled with PPD after my second and it was the worst thing I ever experienced, a lot of the negativity surrounding my second pregnancy definitely fed into it and I don’t want that to happen again. I’m already being hit with a lot of negativity towards this pregnancy too and I’m only 14 weeks. It sucks because a lot of it is coming from close family members and it hurts. I just want to be able to enjoy this pregnancy, because it will probably be my last baby, and not have everyone talk down on having another girl but praise if I’m having a boy. It all just hurts, and I don’t want it to roll over onto my baby like it did with my last one. Sorry just had to rant and get it off my chest.