We’ve just found out we are unexpectedly pregnant (was on the injection). My husband is really not happy about it. He wants me to get an abortion. I don’t want to have an abortion we are about 6 weeks pregnant.

A little back story

Both our boys have special needs (autism/adhd/sensory processing disorder) and my husband has special needs too. Yes the boys are a handful sometimes and it is difficult but I feel like we could do it. He says we just won’t cope with another one and our boys need us now more than ever and if we add another one what’s to say that one won’t have the same. I just don’t know what to do.

Will reply on here as want to stay anon x

Thankyou Caroline. It is difficult I just look at my children now and think what if I aborted one of them you know? I just don’t think I could go through an abortion. I do see his point and I’m scared too but that is our baby. My eldest son has been nagging us about another baby and we said no so I think he would be ok but my youngest is so jealous of anyone came near me it’s like he’s possessed lol xxx