Which would you prefer over the other? IVF cycle..

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Obviously we all hope and pray neither of those happen. But I just had a miscarriage after a fresh transfer. On one hand I think “I know I can get pregnant” but on the other I think “if baby wasn’t going to stick around why did baby have to implant and get me so excited”. I know both suck. I’m just laying here trying to sleep and this keeps running through my head. Thanks for the input

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thank you for your explanation of your thoughts because I saw this poll and wanted to curse you out (not that I actually would have😜) but I can totally understand your thought process—to say I’m so incredibly sorry is an understatement.  my heart is aching for you💔

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I didn't do a fresh transfer because the risk of OHSS. But i did my FET on April 9th. 5 days after the transfer I did a HPT and had a BFP. Went in for my beta, numbers were great! Then they didn't double, then they started to decline. I have never been so heart broken. I did 5 iuis all failed. This is way worse. I was beyond excited to FINALLY be pregnant and now it's gone, just like that. I am devastated 💔

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Been through both . Both are devastating. And I’m sorry your going through this .

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I’ve had three mc’s. It’s grueling and takes a toll on your mental health. I know they are common but I would not wish them on anyone!

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🙏🏾

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Failed transfer. But not going to lie, just knowing I could get pregnant, even if it didn’t last, would have been a huge boost to me while I was struggling.

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I've been through both, and the miscarriage was the worst on me 🙁 
It was extremely dramatic as well, so I never want to do that again.

Which would you prefer over the other? IVF cycle..

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