I don’t enjoy sex

So lately I’ve been getting more sexually active with guys and I get turned on while I sext with them but when it comes down to business I go completely dry/don’t feel anything. When we sext I’m actually wet and I can feel my own touch but when it comes to actually doing it in person it’s like my body shuts off. Does anybody else have this problem? Any ideas on what could help me out? I just wanna be able to enjoy sex haha