Climax

I’m 16 years old, and I’m sexually active with my boyfriend of 10 months (we’ve always messed around but we didn’t start dating till 10 months ago) and sex is a good way for us to get closer but even if I want to climax I cant🤬 I cant make him climax either... I think were both caught up in the emotional aspect of making love rather than anything else. Any advice on how to ~get there~??

Btw I lost my virginity to him vice versa so we are both equally experienced😬[that’s us below hehe]