Husband Won’t Spend Time With Family

So my husband works all week and gets weekends off. He’s too tired to go out or make plans during the week which I totally understand. But then on weekends he just wants to stay home OR hang out with his buddies.

So when I ask if he’ll go hiking or camping or to the movies with us he won’t but he’ll go drinking or shooting and leave me home with the baby.

I just miss him and I want to spend family time together. I feel like I’m being jealous and trying to control him when I ask him not to go. Also he always asks if he can go out with them and it makes me feel like a bitch if I say no.

Does anyone else have this issue? What do you say? How often does he go out with friends? Is every weekend reasonable?