Baby shower 🤔?

Angelica

So i will be 37 week when we have a baby shower😓sadly due to husband being gone for work but my question is how would you ask on a invitations that you really want like baby diapers,soaps,blanket really just stuff like that an not really clothes because a family member gave us alot of clothes from new born to 12 months an they are all like new! But i dont want to sound rude either telling people what to buy. Thanks