Trying to get pregnant

Alejandra • 12’08’17👼🏻💖

Hey Girls,

I wanted to ask if you girls have any tips on trying to get pregnant I lost my daughter on December 8th 2017 at 8 months it was the most unexpected thing I was always told she was healthy and growing just right she was always so energetic i had been hospitalized for 2 weeks due to some bleeding they were monitoring her heart and movement 3 times a day she seemed fine just a few days before she past I started telling. The doctors she wasn’t moving much which was really weird and all they said was “drink cold water to wake her up” then her heart would broke SUPER LOW and all they said was that she was probably touching the cord then my water broke I told them and they said they were treating me for that already I was confused about why they weren’t doing anything about it them came around 8pm it was time for my evening monitoring the nurse couldn’t find her heart beat and it was weird Bc it was always so easy to find I knew something was wrong it wasn’t normal then came another nurse she was older and brought this little ultrasound machine and they couldn’t find it and i kept asking what’s wrong and they wouldn’t answer me then they called the specialist in ultrasounds and brought the big ultrasound machine and she couldn’t find it either that’s when I was told she didn’t have a heart beat I lost my self there I wanted to be alone I texted my mom and she rushed to the hospital then my dad Bc my mom wasn’t answering he rushed as well my mom went in screaming in pain crying about why they weren’t doing anything to try and safe her and see if she had another chance and they still didn’t do anything around midnight they induced me and she was born around 12-1 pm I wasn’t keeping track of time I was in so much pain I couldn’t process anything through my head I remember while in labor I was praying and praying for god to give her a chance and I was hoping to hear her cry but that wasn’t the case 😔 ever since I was scared of even the thought of being pregnant again but I’m ready she will always be in my heart and mind I know she’s watching over me and is proud of how far I’ve made me I am soon going to graduate 🎓 something I thought I wouldn’t do after I lost her but I’ve stayed strong for her to make her proud I’ve been trying to get pregnant for the past few months and nothing I’ve tried ovulation test I’ve tracked everything and still nothing. I would really like some help from you guys on tips to get pregnant