Having a life outside of your relationship

Ry

Call me crazy but I think it is important for people to do things on their own or with friends, but without their significant other. So many people “fall in love” and allow love to consume them. They lose theirselves. They literally has to spend every moment with their significant other. I feel it’s super unhealthy. I don’t really know the point of this post, but ladies... learn to function without your man by your side at all times. Learn to have enough trust to go out separate. Don’t get me wrong, I DO need my man. He is an amazing father and we both contribute equally. But each week (sometimes we skip), we each get one night to go out for a few hours. We get a break from our baby, chores, and yes EACHOTHER. He usually just goes to a friends or works on his bike and I usually have a couple drinks/play pool with my best friend. It has benefited my relationship! We are stronger then ever. Maybe I’m wrong though.. what do you ladies think? Anyone notice this with a close friend/family?