Husbands... friend??

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Ok so my husband has this girl he’s been “friends” with since high school... I say “friend” because they had casual sex a few times before I was ever in the picture, never dated, just sex. He occasionally says hi to her if they see each other out but aren’t like best friends or anything. Don’t hang out. 
Last time he talked to her he invited her to come hang out with us one day... which I find just kind of weird. Like I said, they’re not close at all. Just friendly with each other... 
I’m not against the girl, I just think it’s kinda odd and would be uncomfortable hanging out with someone my husband screwed..? Maybe I’m just being weird and should shrug it off? 
He’s 100% committed and faithful to me and I know, I just think it’s odd lol

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I wouldn't feel comfortable hanging out with a guy my husband used to use as a hookup...doesn't make sense. My spidey senses would be on full alert.

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It's only going to be uncomfortable if you make it that way. It shouldn't be anything weird hanging out with an old friend he doesn't see often

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My husband doesn’t need to hang out with anyone that he has had sex with.

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That’s gonna be a no from me. 🙅🏽‍♀️

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I wouldn’t want to hang out with someone my husband used to fuck either so I don’t blame you for feeling weird about it.

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I don’t see an issue with it. I don’t want to be with a man that didn’t care about the person he was sleeping with, one night stand or long term.  Caring about someone on a basic level as a person.   I prefer knowing my husbands past relationships were built on respect and honesty among other things.  
I also wonder if they were closer friends in the past.  I know its been hard keeping my male friends as I’ve gotten older.  They get new girlfriends, who are uncomfortable with it and eventually you are more acquaintance vs Friend.

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Why is your husband even proposing this? How about you ask if he wants to hang out with someone you screwed and see how that works out?

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I know my husband has a past, I dont need to be reminded of it with her hanging around. Just no.

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Yeah no thanks. Maybe invite an ex to hang out and see how he feels lol.

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That would make me really uncomfortable. Big fat no.

Husbands... friend??

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