I want to ask about postpartum body...

Ive wanted plastic surgery for as long as I can remember.

My fiance finally agreed to let me get my work done so I am making small payments towards surgery for when the time comes...

I am pregnant with our first baby and dont plan on getting the surgery until we are done having kids.

(I'm extremely nervous about coping with my postpartum body)

I'm starting the payments now because its expensive.

So.... At times when we talk about what I want done, he supports me but then will say something like "I dont want other guys trying to get on you, like you didn't want my girl before but now that she got work done you do"

Its always about other guy's, I love the man I'm with were getting married next year and starting our family I dont care what other guys think.

(Been together 6 years total)

But when he says things like that it makes me feel like I'm not allowed to improve my looks because he thinks I'll be out of his league or leave him. (Why? Because I'm more confident)

To me that sounds ridiculous but that's how he feels.

But I also dont want him to not be attracted to me?

He looks at other girls all the time and says things like "I'm just looking its not like I'm trying to get it"

Men are gross and I try not to let things like that get to me but I cant help it....