So I was in an almost 8 year relationship with the PERFECT MAN every girl wished to have. He spoiled the crap out of me, he would take me flowers and coffee to work. He always satisfied me in bed before him. Our relationship was so perfect but I fell out of love w him. I really wished things would've worked out w us but I wasn't even attracted to him anymore.

So we broke up in September 2017 and on October 2018 I met my current bf. I've been dating him for 6 months now. When we first started talking I never thought I was gonna have anything serious w him. But things happened and we decided to give it a try.

So idk if it's wrong of me or I overthink everything but w my current bf I feel unappreciated sometimes. He's nothing like my previous bf... When we argue he doesn't even try to beg me, but instead ignores me. He's definitely not as affectionate as my ex. He doesn't pleasure me in bed before him, he tells me we'll do another round later and ends up falling asleep. But he wasn't like this when we first started dating. He used to always open and reply to my snapchats/texts, now he doesn't open them. He tells me that I call him too much and that he rather talk and hang out w me in person. Till this day we see each other almost everyday. This past weekend I left on vacation and he would only call me in the morning and at night. He has bought me flowers 3 times in the past 6 months. Do I think he's talking to someone else? No, I don't. He has his own business and is always at appointments. I don't have trust issues w him.

But I feel like he doesn't try to impress me or give me the attention he did when we first started dating.

I know sometimes I do compare him to my ex but I do love my bf a lot. Do you think I'm overreacting or I could do better? I'm not used to not having attention when needed. I have hope that maybe he can change but idk. I really don't know what to think or do anymore...