Can I vent?

I am so sick and tired of people who ask if pregnant couples prefer a boy or girl and then judge cause they didn't here "oh we don't care, as long as it's healthy".

Can I say this? OF COURSE I WANT A FRIGGIN HEALTHY CHILD! But can I dream of having a boy? We already have a girl, I'd love to see what it's like to raise a boy! If I get pregnant again I would LOVE TO HAVE A BOY AND HUBBY WOULD LOVE ANOTHER GIRL! But if I get pregnant again and it's not what we hoped for it's not like we'll throw the child away and try again, we

won't even be disappointed, but can a couple dream of their child-to-be's sex?