Why are physicians rude about pregnancy???

Okay so story time .... I’m 21 btw!

The first time I was pregnant in 2017 I went to the hospital because of bleeding (around 7 weeks) the whole time I was there the nurses just kept saying well if it is a MC maybe it’s for the best babies are expensive yada yada) Pregnancy ended in MC .

Got Pregnant again in 2018 went to er again for bleeding . The nurses said “ wow are you trying to get pregnant “ well that ended in a MC again .

Well today I go to my regular primary care because I have gotten to faint positive at home , my doctor seen my water bottle and said “ at least your drinking water trying to do something right “ I took that kind of negative because of the tone . Why am I being treated this way I just don’t understand . If something happens this pregnancy I will not be going back to the same ER !!!