Ladies...

....is it worth trying to save a relationship if you’ve told your SO a couple of times that you’ve felt like they’ve become distant,annoyed, rude, etc in the past two months and that you know they love you but i don’t feel like he is not IN LOVE with me anymore

And their reaction is...

Denial each time and starts to name of irrelevant things that I do that he can’t stand, that have NOTHING to do with trying to fix the problem or at least explain why things have gotten the way they are now.

Ok yes I understand that I’m not perfect but what I’m trying to do is be as open and honest as possible with him because I just know that our relationship isn’t going to work out if he cannot be just as honest and open back with me.

ITS OK if he doesn’t love me the way he used to or does not like everything about me. I know relationships do not always work out and it’s like I already know he doesn’t want to be with me anymore but he won’t admit it!!

He turns it into everything that I do wrong and tries to make me look like a dumb little girl and that I don’t understand anything!

It’s like impossible to get him brutally honest with me but he has no problem shaming me!!

I want the relationship to end because this has made me miserable but I’m so scared that he’s going to make my life a living hell.

I just need someone to talk to and tell me what they would do.