Relationship

Am 25 married with a kid my husband has been away for work over a year plus now and when ever I want to visit him he will give me excuse that no where to sleep and he doesn't want to come and see us as well am just like that with our baby boy when ever I need him he is not there I don't no what to do and when ever I go out there someone must ask me out n I don't want to have extra marital affairs for over a year now have not had sex or make luv pls advise me on what to do I no he is keeping a girlfriend at his workplace that is why he always use his work as excuses when ever I complain that I need him for that I have made up my mind to satisfy my self since he is not ready to meet me I am wrong by saying that pls?