I'm 20, married, studying at University, been living with my husband for 1.5years 5hours away from parents home..yet dad still treats me like a child!!

I'll try to be quick..for example we only see them every few months as we live 5hours away but my dad always does this over the phone or when I see them (I'm studying a Dentistry degree at the top University)

Dad: oh but do you REALLY have time? What about Uni? Are you even revising? You can't fail. You have to study don't forget to study!!

Or

Dad: oh God I'm so worried about your Uni oh god. You cant fail..you need to revise I don't think your revising enough!!!!!

Grrr..I'm a married women, working, living with my husband, not relying on my parents at all...

If I do say something it ends in arguments because "he's my dad so he's supposed to make sure I'm revising" grrr.