Sex help

Hi ladies so I recently lost my virginity back in April, I didn’t bleed or anything but I did cry lolz.. but anyways me and my boyfriend have had sex since then and I love him sm, we’ve been together for 3 years. But honestly I don’t feel good during sex, I’m not sure how to explain it but it’s not like I thought it would be. I’ve felt good maybe 2 times and we’ve had it a lot since our first time so I don’t know what we’re doing wrong. Somebody help I don’t want to hurt his feelings.