Does anyone else’s family pressure you to visit?

My grandparents and in laws always pressure me to visit with my 7 month old. They have been since she was born. They want me to sleep over every weekend and visit during the week. If I don’t they get pissed at me and go on about how I never visit. I go to their houses every Sunday or Saturday for a family dinner. If I stay home one week because my daughters sick they’ll make comments like “oh so guess we won’t be seeing you for another month.” They’ll get mad if I don’t text them but they never make an effort to text me. It’s annoying as hell. Does anyone else’s family do this? How do you even handle it?