Help😢

I have a girlfriend now. We have been vibe-ng for a while . So she wants me to introduce her to my parents since we’ve came a long way . Mean while I’m only 14, my mom already thinks I’m gay cuz of some signs so it wouldn’t surprise her . On the other hand my dad HATES gay ppl . HATESS THEM ALOT . But also on top of that . My gf broke up with her ex of 4 years . From last relationships how do Ik she won’t fix things with her ex or still have feelings for her . Idk what to do. Should I keep it lowkey until I’m ready or just make a move ?

This is me btw💙