Mother’s Day

Hi! I’m currently expecting baby #2 and have a 15 month old son. Last year was my first Mother’s Day and it was absolutely terrible. We did absolutely nothing to celebrate and spent the entire day at my husbands mothers because she’s incredibly selfish and refused to acknowledge any other mother was worth celebrating. This year we live 2,000 miles away (hallelujah) and I thought everything would be different, but so far it’s not looking like we’re going to do anything to celebrate again. I just don’t know if my hormones are causing me to be upset about it or if anyone else would be upset to not be celebrated or even asked what they’d like to do for Mother’s Day. I know if we were near his mother, he’d have a picnic planned with gifts and flowers and the whole 9 yards since he’s done it for her the last 2 years we’ve been together. Is it okay that I’m hurt and my feelings are hurt because of this?