My husband and I have talked for many years about adoption. It's something I've always wanted to do (which I now realize came from a misconstrued savorist frame of mind). I've since had my eyes opened to the trauma behind adoption and recognize that it isn't "rescuing" a baby. I have such admiration and respect for all expectant moms, you are truly facing a difficult situation head on and making the best choice for your baby.

I have PCOS, which in my case has made it hard to stay pregnant. After two losses, we had our two girls, who are 2 years old and 3.5 months old. They are the light of my life and they, with my hubby, are my entire world. I'm beyond thankful for them. I loved being pregnant but we've made the decision that it isn't in my best interest to carry another baby, due to complications while pregnant. This call has broken my heart as in my heart I know I'm not yet ready to done having babies. It just doesn't feel right. So we have decided that the time to adopt is here.

We have started to work on our home study, slowly but surely crossing items off the list. We're determined to make sure we do things right. And we want more than anything to make sure our future expectant mama is treated with the respect she deserves. Do any of you have any pointers as we begin this process? Any advice or tips? If you marketed yourself, how did you avoid potential scams?

Thank you!