Who else’s MIL is a bitch?

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My MIL is such a bitch. She married a man that she knew for about 6 months because he has money. Her lazy ass doesn’t work cause she has “problems” which is insomnia but she stays up till 4am doing her hair and nails so she doesn’t have a problem. Her “man” threatened to kick her Son’s ass at a restaurant because he was a little short on rent and she took his side!
Yesterday she asked my boyfriend if I could let him borrow MY car to take her to her man’s house so she could help him pack. Not a big deal right? Well she has her own car because doesn’t wanna use it even though it works perfectly fine AND she wants my boyfriend to take her even though he has no license, he’ll be in a different county, no insurance and she takes shit about him using her car weeks before. But if it benefits her then that’s a different story?!
She uses people, she’s a fucking gold digger, she’s a hypocrite, and she’s a horrible mother for putting her new man before her kids. I play the bigger person but with her, there are days where I just wanna smack the shit out of her.
I wanna hear your MIL stories.

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The only thing I will say about insomnia is it's a bitch! I have insomnia and if I didn't have 3 other people sleeping I'd probably be doing my hair, nails or watching TV. So I'll give the benefit of the doubt there. 
My MIL is the worst. She was good with me for 6.5 years that I dated my husband. The DAY we got married it all changed. Literally the day of the wedding. My wedding photos with her are horrible. She looks miserable in the pictures. People that I've shown at work asked me wtf her problem was. She didn't pay for 1 thing for the wedding. Yet tried to complain about things at the wedding. Of course it was when my husband wasn't around.  She always did shit when my husband wasn't around so my husband didn't feel comfortable confronting her. Not until we got pregnant with our son. That's when shit hit the fan. She refused to come to the baby shower. (She didn't even know who what when or why) When our son was a year she tried to argue with me about him being able to eat a bunch of sweets, drink chocolate milk and milkshakes. Literally sat there arguing with me at his first birthday when I said no. Our son was walking by 11.5 months, he fell at my parents (under MY supervision) when MIL inquired about it I said he fell in the kitchen she turned and started mean mugging my mother. There's plenty more but I'll skip to August. Her mother is our landlord. We were having plumbing issues so my husband said he needed help, I couldn't do it because I was 35 weeks pregnant. MIL comes up with BIL and 10 y/o SIL. I wasn't feeling good and she knew I wasn't trying to entertain anyone. They were supposed to be there to help. Well my husband got frustrated and they started arguing. I told them to stop in front of my toddler or I was leaving with him. (I said it to BOTH my husband and her.) Well that pissed her off. She talked shit about my family (parents, cousin's, etc). Since then she hasn't been around, of course it's MY fault, not hers. My daughter is 7.5 months old, she has NEVER even asked to see her. But blames me for it. There's obviously so much more but I know this is already long. Lol

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Tell me why when I read your story it reminded me of my mil? She’s a gold digger and a cat fisher!! She is a grown woman with a good paying job, she tricked some man into moving from across the US, to marry someone else. She said her 3 sons were her brothers. She’s in her late 40’s and he’s in his late 20’s her oldest son my husband is only 25 i think her bf is about 29-30. Anyway she’s threatening to call ICE on him if he were to leave her. She scams people for money & even her kids she guilt trips into loaning her money that she will never pay back. I got into a car accident, and I wasn’t done paying my car so my husband bought me a new car (not new used) and she was pissed she was telling him I was a waste of money that she could of used that money for her and just a bunch of bs. And she got evicted from her RV/Trailer she was living at so now she wants to come live with us but I can’t I won’t share a home with her I’ll fight her!

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My MIL only does things that are in her benefit. We were stranded at the border with my new born baby because our flight got canceled and she refused to pick us up.  Even though I’ve lend her my car multiple times and when she asks for MY CAR she doesn’t ask me directly she asks my husband. I was suffering from really bad postpartum depression and she didn’t want to come and help me because according to her I had to deal with it alone. When she was living with us she would threaten us all the time she would leave if we did something she didn’t like eve though it was our house. She would threaten us because she knew we couldn’t pay the mortgage at that time. My husband finally got a better paying job and when she threaten to leave because my husband said she had to get rid of all her stay animals she had brought into the house my husband said fine leave she played the victim to our family saying she didn’t know why her son was being cruel to her. I have many stories of bitchy remarks she does and how she always has to be in spotlight. She made all the special moments in my pregnancy hell and I hate her for it.

Who else’s MIL is a bitch?

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