Separated but craving male attention

My husband and I are separated for the better. We are trying to make things work, but we talk every few days and I’m starting to get very lonely. We separated because he wouldn’t stop talking to someone he cheated on me with, the relationship had ended and the girl lives 1000 miles away but I didn’t approve of the friendship and I guess he thought I was joking when I said I’d leave him.. I finally did and he got the point. It’s very hard to trust again and I have no plans to go back to the apartment we share together anytime soon because it took so much for him to end this and it’s not gonna get me back over some cheap msg and hugs, I need to see he is really committed. I’m so lonely thou, I don’t want to chase him down as I have been trying to make our marriage work, it seemed to make things worse, him thinking he can do whatever he wants and I’ll still be around.. so now I gave him space.. he says he misses me. I miss him too but I stop initiating msgs or calls, I want him to want me because he is the one who left the relationship to begin not me... I don’t know what to do, as I’m craving male attention, I want to be hugged, kissed, sex :( I just want to be wanted by a good looking male.. I don’t know if I make sense :(