what should I do?

Question

My boyfriend always pretends to be fine but occasionally his depression and suicidalness will be very apparent through drunk messages he sends me.
I can’t seem to get him to get professional help, and he tells me to “not concern myself with his well-being” and “don’t care about his feelings”
I don’t know what to do. He’s my best friend and I love him but part of me thinks we’ll end up breaking up because of this problem eventually

Answer

I have depression too, so I think I can kind of understand him. But one question, though; does he say not to worry about him and stuff when he’s drunk, or sober?
Regardless of his mental state when he says those things, I can understand why he might be saying them. His feelings may be different, but I know for me, when I get really low, I do t want to be a burden or a bother to my loved ones. Sometimes I get so down that I try to push my husband away because I just don’t want to hurt him or be a bother. I try not to, because I know my husband wants to be supportive, so I’m making an effort to avoid pushing him away now
Like I said, that may not be how your boyfriend sees it, I just wanted you to know how it is for someone else with depression.

Answer

He needs counseling asap

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